That's "opportunity cost" (you'll hear me toss that term around): the cost of taking or passing on an opportunity. Now, this seems like a pretty simple example of an opportunity cost, and it is. It really only took a couple of minutes to cook up a delightful dinner with my potato (and chicken, kalamata olives, peppers, garlic -- still all cheaper than the curry) so the cost of my time was negligible. Also, it started raining out, so no soccer... you get the point. So how do you measure the opportunity cost of starting over? There's no right answer. Here is what I learned:
Comfort is overrated. What was more important? Feeling comfortable in a familiar place that I could make a lot of money or my happiness. I chose the later, hoping that the former will follow eventually. So the trade off... comfort. Stepping out of your comfort zone is a very difficult and scary thing to do. Yet it can be so rewarding as well. Now, I understand that the cost changes depending on your situation. I luckily have no mortgage, no dependents, no financial burdens except for a boat loan. So to me... my happiness took precedence. My point is, you may not be able to start over or make drastic changes in your life, but once in a while... step outside of your comfort zone... Go try something new. Join a local sports league or club, go to a bar and watch a soccer match in the midst of 100's of screaming german soccer fans. Try a new hobby like brewing or blog writing. Go for a walk in a place you never have before. Tell someone you have a crush on that you like them or just tell a friend that you care about them. You might discover something awesome and it may very well be worth the opportunity cost of maintaining the status quo.
